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In a recent conversation with a friend, I described myself as a metaphorical m&m. That is, hard exterior shell but my insides are chocolatey smooth and laden with lots of sweetness. While a myriad of factors are to blame for this candy-coated-me, I boil it down to the fact that I am 26, single, and the most celebrated day of couple-y love is looming just two weeks away, making me feel all types of way.

Unless I swipe myself an insta-boyfriend or somehow strike gold in a dark corner of Union Pool, which given the current attachment to my couch are both highly unlikely, I will be spending Valentine’s day with just me, myself and I. Am i bitter? Maybe. Finding myself at this crossroads of wanting love and jealously hating those who already have it, I know that I am definitely not the only m&m out there.

Call it a solution, a pact, a new years’ intention, but this year, we’re saying f*ck it to the Valentine’s societal pressures to couple up and embracing our singleness with open arms. It’s time to celebrate loving yourself and that starts with self-care. From styling tips for living your best fashion life to indulgent beauty rituals that do the most, we’ve curated the finest edit of self-care essentials to get you through the month. Below, five steps to perfecting self-care, and all the goodies to get you there.

 

1. Complicate your beauty routine

Though many of us on the COOLS team are firm proponents of the simple skin regimen, this month, we encourage indulging in a products and practices that will reach spa-like levels of extravagance. That gold filled sheetmask you’ve been lusting over? Go ahead. Three different serums and a moisturizer? What the hell. For a step-by-step guide to doing the most, we love Samantha Wilson’s routine that includes double cleansing and an at-home facial sauna. And if you insist on coupling up this month, do it with a very dry glass of chardonnay and take cue from our perfect pairings of wine and masks. Get to it!

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BIODERMA

Sensibio Mask

$19.9



JOANNA VARGAS

Dawn Face Mask

$75



EVE LOM - WIRE

Eve Lom Rescue Mask

$85



SATURDAY SKIN

Spotlight Set Of 5 Brightening Masks

$30



CHANTECAILLE

Bio Lifting Serum

$216



REN SKINCARE

Flash Rinse 1 Minute Facial

$48


2. Kickstart your morning with this OG superfood

Move over matcha. Moringa oleifera is the latest superfood generating hype all over the web. And for good reason. The leaf-based powder is chock full of nutrients like protein, amino acids, and is especially high in fiber, iron, calcium, potassium, magnesium, and zinc – basically everything you need in your life and more. Plus, it makes for a mean morning latte with as much caffeine as your regular coffee fix and is rumored to be a killer hangover cure.

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OLIVIA VON HALLE

Malibu Silk-blend Sweatshirt And Track Pants Set - Baby pink

$1,245



DAYDREAMER

Bringing Feminism Back Tee, Size Large - White

$28



AGNONA

drawstring sweatpants - Grey

$1,201



GUCCI

logo sweatshirt with bow

$1,500



ALALA

Crane Sweatpants

$125



OLIVIA VON HALLE

Moscow Striped Silk-blend Sweatshirt And Track Pants Set - Ivory

$1,245


3. Fit in 20 minutes of activity, even while you Netflix

Was 2017 rough for you? Have you spent the past six months working on your body? That’s weird, me too. Fear not. This month, focus on setting intentions that you can keep – including a new fitness regime. Start small with holding yourself accountable to 20 minutes of physical activity everyday. Whether it’s walking to work, hitting up a hot vinyasa every once in a while or even a midnight romp (it’s doctor recommended), you can get creative. This 20-min ab workout doesn’t even require you to leave the couch. Sign me up.

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APL ATHLETIC PROPULSION LABS

Techloom Pro Mesh Sneakers - Gray

$160



SWEATY BETTY

Power Mesh Leggings

$140



SWEATY BETTY

Barre to Bar Gym Bag

$145



SWEATY BETTY

Brave The Elements Jacket

$290



SWEATY BETTY

Ultra Run Bra

$65



SWEATY BETTY

Mantra Tank

$40


4. Refine your signature style

January really did feel like it was 734 days long and we are officially over the winter layers. To combat the weather wardrobe blues, how about a little retail therapy? It’s time to click purchase on those investment pieces that have been sitting on your wishlist. Curate your look with styling tips from our editors.

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PRADA

Micro Spazzolato Cahier

$1,350



SAINT LAURENT

Large Shopping Tote Bag

$995



CHANEL

CHANEL'S GABRIELLE PURSE

$3,800



BALENCIAGA

Classic City Bag

$2,190



GUCCI

Icon Gucci Signature wallet

$760



CHLOE

Faye Medium Leather & Suede Shoulder Bag

$1,950


5. Feel sexy for yourself

Self-care isn’t just about pampering the outside. Hopefully, the extra attention kicks into gear a cycle of looking good, feeling good, doing good. But actually loving yourself is essential. Practice positive affirmations on the daily – you’d be surprised how changing your mindset can change the game. Hit on yourself when you look in the mirror, seriously. Love your strengths, your weaknesses, your talents and your quirks. Just love it all.  

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FLEUR DU MAL

Black Rose Lace Demi Bra

$130



FLEUR DU MAL

Black Longline Triangle Bra

$95



KIKI DE MONTPARNASSE

Black Soft Mesh Bra

$155



CALVIN KLEIN UNDERWEAR

Grey Modern Cotton Bralette

$35



VERSACE UNDERWEAR

Black Medusa Triangle Bra

$90



CALVIN KLEIN UNDERWEAR

White Modern Cotton Bralette

$35


 

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